The lies you never wanted to tell.
Why do you find yourself lying about things?
From a young age, we were taught that lying is wrong. Yet, those who gave us this advice often acted in ways that contradicted their own words.
People lie for various reasons: to protect their own interests, to hide their shame, or to manipulate others into doing their bidding. Some even lie to maintain their sanity, shielding themselves from those who always seem to be right.
Questions like, “What should I do now?” or “They won’t accept it,” echo in their minds. They fear being misunderstood and constantly feel judged and blamed for others’ mistakes.
The truth is, many struggle to stand firm in their beliefs or face disappointment. Sometimes, their selfishness blinds them to the reasons behind their lies, leading to a heavy, unacknowledged guilt.
To those who lie to protect themselves rather than to deceive, it’s important to remember that some lies are told for the sake of peace. Dwelling in guilt and doubt only brings unnecessary stress. Your words won’t harm those who are strong and grounded.
The people you’ve lied to often fail to recognize their own faults. No matter how much you try to explain, they may never see that they were wrong in the first place.
So, don’t let self-guilt consume you. Stand up for yourself, even if it feels shaky. Speak your truth and distance yourself from those who can’t accept it. Remember, those who refuse to accept your truth will likely dismiss your lies too, especially if they don’t serve their interests.